Girls don’t suddenly become evil; a girl who suddenly appears evil was already evil from the start because of her surroundings or upbringing.
The basis of these marriages/relationships is sex.
You both have a fight, and she comments on your physical appearance, saying, "You look so bad, yet I'm dating you."
I am 11 years old and I think I am going through puberty. Why do my nipples hurt when I touch them? Is it normal?
She gives warning signs at every step, but you are too blinded by your priorities to see them.
So, my simple relationship advice for you is to love someone fo...
Imagine you see a beautiful girl and start following her.
How can I get rid of the fake girls on social media that are claiming to be hookups? Is there a way to shuffle through them and the real women that actually want to talk?
Then, you consider yourself a greater lover than Majnu.
You think you won't find a girl more beautiful than her, so you keep putting in effort.
Now you become a "Sigma male" on social media, start hating every girl, and begin to negatively influence other guys by portraying a negative image of girls.
President Trump kicked Zelensky out of the White House. Is it over for a deal?
This makes you silent, and you start thinking she is absolutely right.
It's nighttime, and you call her late at night to ask what she is doing.
She behaves like a narcissist, takes your efforts for granted, and even makes fun of you in front of her friends.
Why do some people dislike rap and hip hop music despite there being poor quality music in every genre?
Then you message her, she replies, and you both chat a lot.
You enter a relationship with a girl just because of her looks, and in your mind, sex is the most important priority.
This is where the story ends, and I'm sure this is the story for the majority of guys out there. Now, listen up, guys:
Hi everybody! I have been looking at posts on narcs and narc abuse on here and if has really helped me out a lot. I am currently struggling with my situation and need some advice/support.
I met a narc last year, everything seemed to good to be true. Love bombing, always texting calling and taking me on dates. Everything changed when someone warned me about him out in public in front of him and who he is. This caused a conflict with us and the love bombing seized.
he would tell me that everything is okay and i can come and talk. He would set a time limit on me and kick me out after that.
he would then text me like everything was fine and we hung out again and after that he completely ghosted me for one week. He came back and texted me a week later laughing about the ghosting and acting like nothing had happened.
he continued to text me ( not like in the beginning) make plans with me, then on the day of the plans he would just ghost me. One day he would act interested the next silence.
i contacted him a month later and he acted like nothing happened. He was on a vacation and sent me a picture of another woman ( someone he allegedly met on the trip) to strike a reaction but i never gave him one. After the trip he came to my place and was extremely rude, accusing me of going on dates with a bunch of men. The next day he accused me of being an alcoholic and that he wanted nothing to do with me but said well maybe we can be "friends" then ghosted me
i assumed at this point it was over and i would never hear from him again. He contacted me on the holiday a month later acting like everything was great. We ended up hanging out a month or so later and when we hung out it went well, i thought things were going in the right direction.
after we hung out.. silence. I would try to text him and if he replied it would be very short then he just stopped replying. He ghosted me for almost three months. I thought he was done this time and of course he popped up again like nothing happened. At this point i was getting sick of if so i questioned him as to why he dissapeared and always does this. Of course he had some sob story about a injury and family member dying of cancer. I felt pity for him and he gave me an apology.. so i took him back stupidly.
things seemed to be going smooth for a couple months, of course until his family member died and his injury got better he never contacted me and was distant. Menawhile, i was there for him during the difficult time for him. He lied to me about the funeral and never wanted to chat. I was chasing him and he would always claim nothing was wrong but when i said i thought he used me when he was down he could not handle it and would always tell me he didnt care and to go away. I would get so upset i would try texting him to work it out he would barelt respond and if he did he would not be nice about it.
we did hang out a couple times after that, he would ignore me after. One day i was like hey i think you are seeing someone else, and i was like well ixam seeing someone so no problem if you are he said " buy bye good luck with your new guy stop contacting me" i was devastated and tried to get into contact with him for weeks then i just gave up and accepted it was over. He ended up contacting me a month later acting like everything was fine. He wanted to go out and have drinks i told him i would. He and i both seemed to have a great time. He ends up ignoring me again. I kept texting him trying to figure out what was wrong. He kept saying everything was fine and i said ok can we hang out again? He said maybe i was like why? He just kept saying maybe …
our last conversation we had… i said what is wrong ? He said nothing is wrong everything is fine. I asked him why he keeps saying maybe. He said " maybe but i dont want to see you right now" i said why? He saix " im just not feeling it, if i wanted to date i would" i said why did you contact me less then a week ago wanting to go out? He said i didnt.. even though he did. So i said should i just move on or what? He said whatever you want to do. So i said that he was really confusing me and asked him if he had anything more to say before i move on? My messages were turning green so i panicked he blocked me and reacted irrationally. I said " omg did you block me? My messages are not going through. Even texted him on my work phone asking what was up. And called him twice ( please dont judge me i know it is pathetic i never was this type of girl before him) so he replied and said " Ok I'll block you now" then immedietly blocked me. He has never blocked me before since I have met him he will just ghost. Is this ths final discard aka " grand finale? Did i just push him too far?
this has upset me so much its hard to even function.
I believe you will take this advice seriously. You see fake rape cases and fake dowry cases around you, right?
You start flirting, and she flirts back. There's a significant difference between your looks; she is extremely beautiful, and you are average-looking. But because of your sense of humor, she gets impressed, and you both enter a relationship.
However, you avoid bringing it up because you don't want to lose her.
What were the first few days, weeks, months and then years like after finding out about your spouses infidelity? How did your feelings, and yours & their approach to the situation change in the immediate aftermath compared to later down the line?
You make the relationship public, and your friends and cousins feel jealous because you are dating such a hot girl.
This situation repeats itself, and you confront your girlfriend.
You become so blinded by this priority that you ignore every red flag and crush your self-respect to save a relationship based on sex and looks.
If people in the UK hate Trump so much, why does he own golf courses there?
You tolerate the disrespect.
You find out she has gone to watch a movie with her male best friend, and this incident makes you feel insecure.
But still, you tolerate everything and create an image in your mind of a true lover, showing how much you love someone.
Were the 1980s as uptight and prudish as movies and TV shows make them out to be? When I think of 80s culture, I think about a very "icky" judgmental yuppie status quo time period.
One day, she breaks up with you badly, leaving you with lifelong trauma.
